Newlyweds Share Their Wedding Regrets (So You Can Learn From Their Mistakes!)
I recently came across this great article on One Wed about the top 4 regrets that newlyweds had about their wedding day.photo from my Everygreen Gardens Wedding
No wedding is absolutely perfect. When we asked newlyweds and… the less newly wed to share their biggest wedding day woes with us, a few common threads started to emerge. Here’s what we learned:
1. Get It On Film
So many brides told us they wished they’d sprung for a videographer (a side note from SCP- you can view my favorite local videographer here), or given their wedding photographer more specific directions (another side note from SCP- ALWAYS tell your photographer about any surprise elements you have planned for your wedding so that they can be sure to be where they need to be to capture it!). Your wedding will be RIFE with special moments – make sure you capture as many as possible!
“My husband and I really regret not recording the speeches. They were so loving and beautiful, we were moved to tears again and again! It’s one of the best memories I have of that day and I wish we had a better record of all the kind things our family and friends had to say. A few gave us their typed notes but most strayed and added in some great anecdotes. Nothing about hair/makeup/venue or cakes mattered to me once I realized there were so many people there who loved us so much!” – Isabella
2. Beauty Accidents Happen
Wind, rain, and acts of God can seriously undo your updo. When you’re contemplating your wedding hairstyle, consider the locale, temp, and time of year. ALSO – the week of/day of your wedding is not an awesome time to try exciting new beauty treatments for the first time.
“My biggest mistake? Thinking my hair would actually cooperate and not require 3.5 hours to do so, effectively ruining photo happy time.” – Christen
“My wedding was on the beach. It was gorgeous but there were strong winds so my Kardashian curls turned to a frizzy, curl-less disaster AND my veil flew out. Luckily the ceremony was over when it happened…. But you can see my hair get progressively worse in the pix!” – Jessica
3. Budget Your Time
Three words, ladies. HAIR AND MAKEUP. Too many wedding timelines get derailed when brides don’t budget enough time for wedding prep. Don’t let the primping get the best of your special day!
“I honestly think the one and only thing I would change would be starting hair/make-up for the ladies earlier, so we could have done more bride+bridesmaids photos. That said, I love the few we did get, and that is the *ONLY* thing I would change!” – Sean
4. Don’t Succumb To Peer Pressure
So many brides felt their wedding suffered because they’d been duped into letting friends or friends of friends handle important wedding services. “Friendors” can be fab…but they can also be a big flop.
“I’d have written contracts for services provided. Just because they’re your friends doesn’t mean you don’t need one. I’m still waiting for the dvd of our ceremony 13 mos later with no way of getting my money or the video footage.” – Jennifer
So there you have it brides – wedding wisdom from real brides who have been to the altar and back (and lived to tell about it). If you’ve recently wed, tell us – what would you have tweaked about your wedding?
A final note from me: I would have to say that #3 has been a popular comment from my past brides. I’ve had a few brides, after their big day, say that they wished they would have allotted for more time for photography prior to the ceremony. I always recommend allowing for more time than you think you’ll need for pre-ceremony shots. Your big day comes once in a lifetime. Don’t rush through anything. Savor and capture each precious moment!